Not surprising that gay marriage didn’t cause the sky to fall because, well, love is a pretty good thing and allowing people to visit each other in the hospital when they’re sick, or be dependents on health insurance, or any of the other myriad things that “marriage” confers to two people who love each other hardly seems like it would ruin my life or anyone else’s, for that matter. Well, except for the people who made millions stoking the anti-gay-marriage fires…