I worry about the immigration debate we’re having. I’ve been worried since Lou Dobbs started banging the “Mexicans are scary” drum years ago. It’s only gotten worse since. The myriad of proposals all seem to change the very nature of immigration. As Fareed Zakaria says,

Compared with every other country in the world, America does immigration superbly. Do we really want to junk that for the French approach?

My family is the product of the American immigration experience. My father arrived in the early 70s as a skilled civil engineer. My mother soon followed. They had me, then my sisters, and by the mid 80s owned a home. I went on to a top 20 university. My sisters went on to the top liberal arts colleges in the world. They both went on to pursue law and medical degrees. By the time we all were finished our undergrad, both of my parents were citizens. In high school, I considered joining the military after realizing that between being Indian and being American, I was American. My loyalty lies here, with the country that gave my family opportunity.

In another country, say France or Germany, my parents wouldn’t have become citizens. I would not be in a neighborhood with a bunch of Jewish families, a bunch of Christian families, and, yes, one or two Indian families. I may have been in a ethnically homogenous neighborhood, segregated but welcome there. I might have had a tougher time getting into some of the best colleges here, and I may not have pursued the career I did.

It’s not to say that we’re the same as illegal immigrants or that my family exemplifies the illegal immigrants that these laws target. My point is that these laws we’re proposing will affect those of us who come here legally. Without citizenship, my story would be different.

As a country, we are too often focused on who to blame and who to punish. At some point, we need to see what is right in front of us. These people come here because they know they can make money. They come because they want to help their families. They can make money because people want to hire them. So, why do folks hire them? More specifically, who hires them? What would happen if there were an H-1B program for laborers, meat packers, and farm hands?

I can’t believe that guest worker programs are the best that we can come up with. Nor can I believe that Lou Dobbs and the vapid rhetoric coming out of some Republicans are the best we can do talking about this debate. I also can’t believe that I’ve found an issue that I actually agree with the President (until he flip-flopped recently).

The Economist has a good overview of the larger debate and politics.