For professional athletes, success is measurable and definite. When you or I ask whether we’re successful, we have to first define what makes us successful. Athletes know. Not only do they know, their goals are definite, clearly marked, and measurable by all of us. For Michelle Kwan and other Olympians, that goal is Olympic gold. Sadly, she’s probably never going to reach it.

Kwan will have to learn to live without achieving her life’s goal, something she has worked hard her whole life for. I can’t really imagine what that feels like. Most of us get to look back and realize a dream has ended. Athletes get to see it happen, see the scores, and then talk about it with the world.