I’m writing this post because Sujal tore me away from my reading induced nap and asked me to read this post about Latoyia Figueroa and then respond to it. I’ve been a bit touchy about posting to Fatmixx, partly because I think blogging is really immediate and not necessarily the medium for well-thought out communication. Perhaps I am just too lazy to write and then rewrite posts. I guess I think of blogs more as journaling rather than serious writing. So with that said, please do not flay me.
When Sujal called me to ask me to write this post, I asked him to tell me about it first. I will admit, my first reaction internally was something along the lines of: Okay, so what do you want me to do about it? There’s nothing I can do about it. I think that was coming directly from my deeply rooted white guilt. And as quick as lightning, a flurry of thoughts ran through my head. I have never been a big fan of the hyping of missing women, white or otherwise. Frankly, I think that it paints missing women as entertainment. Just ask Sujal, I despise TV shows that revolve around a woman being victimized: raped, murdered, abducted, you name it. Years ago, I began thinking about how there are very few movies or books about men being victimized by women. (I think I may have even posted about this in the past.) I even opened it up to men being abducted and tortured by other men, and still my list was quite short. I asked a lot of people at the time for their knowledge, and collectively, we came up with a short list. the two that come to mind are “Misery” and “Man in the Iron Mask” (men without any heroic status in the text or film — and yet “Iron Mask” even seems to break that rule). For the most part, men are not portrayed as being so powerless. I’d say this goes for the news, too. Women, on the other hand, are the perfect object for victimization in pop-culture, non-pop-culture, and the news. Honestly, I began to think that women were victimized more in reality. I did a little online research to see if indeed women were more likely to be on the receiving end of violent crime. I came upon this website, Bureau of Justice Statistics. Men are indeed much more on the receiving end of victimization. I couldn’t find info on abduction and/or torture. I go through all of this because what really upsets me is how skewed the perceptions of women as victims are. There’s a book called The Culture of Fear. I have not read it, but I see it referenced a lot and know that it deals with fear being a means to control “the masses” and public perception. I also think that portraying the victimization of women, whether it is as entertainment or as news can foster an idea that this IS what happens, and therefore it’s out there, not that it is exactly okay to victimize women, but it’s out there — just like lying is not okay, but it happens all the time (perhaps not on the same scale).
My other hesitation to post about this was because there has been a long standing clash between some white feminists and some feminists of color. I do not want to diminish the importance of any human being, which is probably the main reaction to this phenomenon of underreporting missing minority women. I would agree that it does indicate a disconcerting lack of concern for all individuals regardless of skin color. But I am also not prepared to get into a really big discussion of white feminism vs. feminism of color, and that is probably because I am white and have not looked into it too deeply.
So I guess my feelings on Figueroa are as follows: I am not a fan of any woman’s disappearance being paraded on TV, newspapers, or internet. I usually see these things as private matters, and I do not want to be a voyeur. I do, though, see the helpfulness of publicizing a face of a missing person to report leads. So I guess it gets a bit complex there. As for the fact that minority women are not given the same media attention, well, that is flat out wrong that our media reports that way, obviously. (though any good businessperson will tell you that news is a business, and they report on what sells, so the larger society is equally guilty.) Clearly there are issues of race and class at play. Clearly as a nation we value some people over others. This is wrong. But again, I think it is wrong period to treat the victimization of women as entertainment.
The blogger on All Spin Zone wanted any blogger to link to mention Latoyia Figueroa to get her name out there to try to get leads. I do not know how to post pictures, so just click on All Spin Zone.






July 30th, 2005 at 12:00 am
This story has reinforced every negative stereotype about inner-city minorities. The interview with LaToyia’s best friend was classic. She said: “She could have been picked up by anyone, her baby’s fatha, or one of the other guys she’s messin’ with.” The national news anchors who have been bullied into covering this story are obviously doing so with complete disinterest, humiliation and disdain. The reason stories like this don’t make the news is b/c Latoyia’s lifestyle is anathema to that of most people, and the lifestyle itself is dangerous in most people’s judgment, and the very reason why she is missing. Yes, it is bigger news, much bigger, when a girl with a full scholarship to college, who is bright, articulate, and pretty disappears on a vacation to an island beach resort. It makes sense, like it or not.
July 30th, 2005 at 12:30 am
Mike, newsflash!
That other girl disappearing is news only in the sense that she is another missing person. Certainly not enough to send a news anchor for “on location” reporting for a month or more. Certainly not top news. What she really has become is something for certain “newscasters” to exploit.
What is really scary about what you say is the callousness. Figureoa is missing under circumstances just as mysterious as the other one. Yet, the search for her doesn’t include the military aircraft, the FBI, or even her own state police helicopter. I guess what determines some’s valu, and how hard we should search for them, is looks, socio-econimc status and potential to “lool like me” and has nothing to do with them being human…just like me.
Fortunately, many people do not accept that and even more fortunately, the media has been shamed appropriately.
July 30th, 2005 at 12:39 am
don’t miss the point, Mike. Why does it make sense?
I haven’t seen the interview you’re quoting, nor have I seen anything like it in all of the articles I’ve read. Feel free to link to a transcript or let me know where you saw that.
From what I gather, this was a hard working single mother. She had a job, she was a good employee, and she supported her family. See the CNN article for this…
(thanks Bram, for saying what i wanted to better!)
July 30th, 2005 at 1:19 am
the guy is leaving nearly verbatim comments on other blogs, too… wouldn’t waste too much time on him.
July 30th, 2005 at 9:15 am
I see what Sujal commented about “Mike” leaving verbatim comments on any blog he can get his hands on (except mine). This makes sense, because when I began reading his comment, all I could think was, I didn’t link to a transcript…. (though I believe AllSpineZone did) — but what i thought was it seems like he didn’t even read my post.
Actually, HE totally reinforced eveything I said in my post. I know that I ought not to take him too seriously, but I think he may well represent a decent sized amount of popularity of opinion. His whole framing that she leads a dangerous lifestyle and that her lifestyle is anathema to most — NEWSFLASH: wildly misogynist. That a woman has a child (out of wedlock?) and is pregnant with another, has a boyfriend, etc — he intimates that this means that she is leading a dangerous lifestyle? That she is “loose”? And even if she IS “loose” — this is surely a bad thing.
I wanted to immediately argue that Halloway was by herself with stranger men in Aruba, drinking(?) — many would say that this is bad, loose behavior — but then I’d be as bad as he is.
July 31st, 2005 at 1:32 pm
This sort of apologist thinking when people lead lives like savages is exactly what this world does not need. Her and baby fatha No. 2 didn’t have enough money for the $35 insurance co-pay for prenatal care, so rather than save their money and return to the doctors, they went out and spent their remaining funds on fried fish sticks and french fries. Real class. Not only is this not National News, it’s barely local news. The only reason LaToyia is receiving coverage is because of political opportunits like Richard Cranium and the FACT THAT HER COUSIN IS A PHILADELPHIA CITY COUNCILMAN. I have never seen an entire police force comb a park like in this case when someone is missing. She is receiving the exact preferential treatment that you bedwetters are complaining about in the Holloway case. I guess it doesn’t matter because she’s a minority, so it doesn’t bother you. What about all the other missing minority women across the country who don’t have city councilman as cousins? Also, what about the beautiful, poor white girl from Cali that has been missing for over a month–do you know her name, or take up her cause? That’s a rhetorical question obviously.
July 31st, 2005 at 1:46 pm
Mike, have you read anything I have written? I don’t think we should parade missing women around on the news, etc b/c it becomes a form of entertainment. I do not need to know about the girl from CA. Her family does not need to be a target for media exploitation. Please at least read my initial post before you call me a bedwetter. And besides, how did you know? Who told you?
July 31st, 2005 at 1:48 pm
I do know her name, jackass, because I do read the conservative blogs too. I realize that Cheryl Ann Magner’s case is as tragic as this one. But then, that actually makes my point (and hleahh’s and badmd’s), but you don’t seem to be bright enough to get it, huh?
Then again, you only care about keeping the minorities in their place, spreading stupid stereotypes about their lives and spreading garbage around. Keep up the good work, idiot.
We all know what you are and how seriously to take you…
July 31st, 2005 at 2:16 pm
Yes, hl, point taken. As to sujal, you would do well to worry about the hate being spread by Imans all across the world and stop trying to exploit racial issues for your outdated political agenda. This woman led the life of a savage, as all the facts point out, and it is a joke that this woman has made the national news. Every report about this case shows that this woman was classless. She was getting long stroked by all kinds of guys according to her best friend, kicked in the stomach by other women pregnant by the same guy etc, etc. This is a disaster for the minority community. You liberal bedwetters are having this story blow up in your face. They are already playing games in bars across the Philadelphia area based on the facts of this case. It’s a disgrace. Good job. Aim high.
July 31st, 2005 at 2:50 pm
Thank God the national media has latched on to my point and the news coverage has disappeared.
July 31st, 2005 at 4:43 pm
Ah, yes, the Imams. I missed how they tie into the Figueroa case, but I’m sure you’ll enlighten us. (Way to try to deflect the criticism above.)
I’m going to humor you because I want to understand what drives you to be so hateful.
I’ve read no reports of her being unfaithful to her boyfriend. All reports indicate that, if anything, her boyfriend was cheating on her. There was one incident where this Ms. Figueroa was kicked by her boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend. By all reports, Ms. Figueroa was a good mother, a responsible employee, and a good friend to those around her. Nothing, NOTHING, I’ve read has indicated anything that would rise to the level of “savagery” let alone even loose morals.
You still miss the greater point, of course. It shouldn’t matter who she is or what her life is like if she’s been missing. Her daughter is still a child, a human, and deserves her mother. This woman was still a human and a mother and doesn’t deserve to suffer through this. Their suffering is no less significant than Natalie Holloway’s or Cheryl Ann Magner’s.
Would Natalie Holloway’s case be any less of a story or less tragic if it turns out she went out for a threesome or a gang bang with the two boys? Does that rise to the level of “savagery” for you? or is that just kids having fun? My point is that I don’t really care about her personal life, her story should be covered the same as the Magners and the Figueroas of the world. (and my apologies to the Holloway family for suggesting such a thing, even in a hypothetical)
For you to sit there on your perch and judge her is really pretty sad and hateful.
Then again, you seem like a racist and a misogynist who likes spreading nasty lies about people. No links, no evidence to back anything up. And the few facts that you do get right, you twist and distort.
Keep in mind that you’re the one making this about race… you’re the one who keeps bringing up the harm to the “minority community” (whatever that is…). The point with this case is to highlight how perniciously the media chooses which cases to follow and which not to.
Final point… the common thread in all of your nonsense is that you blame the victim or “liberals” for the actions of others. Her boyfriend cheats on her, she’s a savage. People in bars make up games based on this tragedy, but it’s the “liberals” fault. You might want to think about that for a while…
Like I said, I think we know what you are: a racist and a bigot. It must be nice to be able to judge with impunity from your Jersey home.
July 31st, 2005 at 6:06 pm
Stick to the issues little man. First, ask Simone at the Philadelphia Daily News about whether this was LaToyia’s “boyfriend.” Simone went on a rant that Baby Fatha No. 2 was not her “boyfriend” in a hopelessly obvious attempt by Simone to push the alternative, inner-city lifestyle down everyone’s throat. In a later interview on MSNBC, it was obvious that her editor probably grabbed her by the throat and she apologized for the statement. Way to be an apologist for a woman who spends her money on fried seafood for her and this Buck rather than save up money for the prenatal co-pay of $35. The upshot is that this is a case of favoritism that isn’t even of interest locally, let alone nationally. Thank God the national news media is starting to report on the favoritism given to LaToyia due to her cousin and uncle. This woman’s reckless lifestyle has likely led her to suffer the same fate as her mother. And, the liberals like you, who live by the sword in playing the race card, are dieing a quick and miserable death as the motives (political opportunism) spills out of this story like garbage in the streets of S.W. Philly.
July 31st, 2005 at 10:01 pm
here are all the stories at the daily news about Latoyia, including the articles you’re referring to. I leave them here for the readers to decide…
http://www.philly.com/mld/dailynews/news/local/12245744.htm
http://www.philly.com/mld/dailynews/news/local/12251799.htm
http://www.philly.com/mld/dailynews/news/local/12251786.htm
http://www.philly.com/mld/dailynews/news/local/12262072.htm
July 31st, 2005 at 10:12 pm
And, just to get this straight, your point is that her life is worth less than, say, Natalie Holloway because she lived a lifestyle that you don’t agree with?
You don’t know this woman, yet you presume so much about her life that it’s amazing to me. Why do you hate her so much? Is it because she’s black? a woman? Young? Poor?